“Thank you.” Such small words with such big meaning.

A lot of things in the wedding world have changed since your mother got married.

~ Bride’s side and groom’s side at the ceremony? Not necessary anymore.

~ Parents’ names on the invitations? Not if you’re footing the bill.

~ And changing your last name? Only if you want!

But there is one bit of wedding etiquette that remains just as non-negotiable now as it has been for generations. And that is writing thank you notes.

Whether it’s for a gift you received, an act of kindness or assistance someone offered you or a party someone threw in your honor, make sure the thank you note you write and send is beautiful, personal and meaningful.

Yes — I said, “write.” There are so many options for personalized and printed thank you notes these days that some brides think they can just scribble a signature at the bottom of the note and pop it into the mail. Go ahead and order that personalized thank you note, but remember that you MUST include a handwritten message. In your note, mention:

• the gift you received

• the service you received or the kindness made toward you

• how much you appreciate it

• how you plan to use the gift (if it’s monetary, how you plan to spend it)

• a personal anecdote or mention of your connection to make the giver feel acknowledged, remembered and appreciated (i.e., “Grandma, I can’t wait to use the mixer you gave us to make your special pineapple upside-down cake!”)

As an added plus, the thank you notes you choose are available in styles and colors that coordinate with your wedding stationery for a beautiful look that will remind them of your invitations and your wedding.

 

My favorite thank you note designs right now? Consider these!

 

Bird Thank You Notes

I love the sweetness of the design AND the colors. (You lovebirds!)

 

Cherry Blossom Thank You Notes

Perfect for an Asian-inspired theme or a springtime event — or just if you love pink!

 

Brianna Thank You Note

LOVE the fresh colors and the whimsical little flowers.

 

Thank You Note Set

Recipients will love seeing these cute illustrations of the parts they played in your big day!

And if you want a custom thank you note, shop the enclosure cards section, select a style, choose a paper color, and personalize the note folders with a design or monogram.

 

Enjoy!